
If you take oral sex away from sex, there's a whole area of sexuality that simply disappears from the map, and that, my friend, is boring. I mean common, not giving head is like saying "I never use the letter "a" in my sentences" and as a result, there's a great deal of stuff that can't be said anymore. If you can't perform such a basic task early on, what other basic stupid stuff will you find unacceptable or disgusting further down the way? Pulling your hair? Slapping your ass? Doggystyle? Please. I never told her why to not destroy her self-esteem but i broke it up the next time we saw each other. I say i understand they broke it up because it looks very selfish, plus i know i have broken up with at least one girl not so long ago because she said giving head was "disgusting" after i had spent 30 min worshiping her lip salad. There's nothing disgusting about it, provided a minimum of hygiene, it's all in your head. Sex is about giving as much as receiving and if you aren't empathic, generous or loving enough to do it to your partner, it's almost like you don't deserve to have sex at all. To each his own obviously, but if you ask me, it's one of the most selfish thing there is, i understand they broke it up.
